Is caring too much a problem or a safe feel zone ?, different point and position takin views !!….ain’t it ?🖤
When it comes to the care that u have with Ur brothers and parents , well ….. that’s something that will last life long however u act or react . 😊
So what about the person you care , who becomes Ur family from an outsider or a stranger ?!!
Just a simple questionnaire difference , how will we feel …if someone cares about me ?…..like checking on me always ? , Checking on my phone always ? , Asking unnecessary questions like y was I talking with him / her ? ….well , isn’t this care ? ….but there is something in us that possess these type of care…. righ?🙃🤪
And trust me , if u are someone who is ready to give up yourself for all this questions above , maybe it’s time to stop expecting from Ur partner to be like this , and FYI , this is how life works , only opposite personality attracts to each other .
Coz sometime , there is always this time , you wanna love someone and u wanna have them in Ur life and later u end up missing something in Ur life like , I need someone to fill my weaknesses or the gap in me , and u end up finding a more suitable partner , ending up in a tied up relationship that aldready exists .
And if u r someone , who doesn’t care about those above questions that I asked , then trust me , u are a person who is gonna end up caring too much for the person u love .
I know and I can aldready feel , u are starting to ignore the concept that I’m trying to create here , but also do remember that ..ppl who really love each other balances their relationship and mostly give up on themselves just to make their darling happier and grow old together…and obviously sacrifices are made and especially I don’t wanna talk about the insane thing we land up doing for the person we love 👻 ….
Coz after all love is a powerful emotion that’s created in us and a life long memory that last with us even though u call him/her ex 😂😜….and we gotta limit the things we aren’t perfect in and stop caring too much about the person we love in order to balance the character that flows in us too or obviously u end up on the easy task : DIVORCE … just a Appomattox that u don’t wanna try the hard part and it isn’t Ur fault …it’s just that u r given a option to leave Ur partner on divorce , and what if this divorce was never created and u have a life where u must stay with a partner u chose once ?!!🤪 …then what will u do ? …. u’ll start acting maturely safe or what ?!!😂
And also understand this concept …that divorce is just to make ppl know that u aren’t with Ur partner no more ….it’s not a block that limits the feeling that u have for Ur ex , when u start missing him later when u don’t get to have him anymore … aren’t rules strange !??👹
I just also wanna share this lovely girl labeeba .. I met , but she had something in her mind that she failed to share with me and she reacted in a different style such that ppl around her worry too much about her …and there was this one time she told me something strange about the voices that she hears in her head and it was a time where seeing her became something impossible ….and I started to agree that I cared too much for her , and i felt strange coz I didn’t know y she said me and not her parents, and I Felt like she would have obviously felt that I’m empowering pityness over her and yah I did !!! Coz That’s how we have to react if we are normal and , all she did was block me on Instagram and everywhere….out of the 100% care that she wanted from her and not from a third person… ME !!!(that’s what she said 😨) ,and I did totally get it , how she would have felt if I was in her place going through some rough patches on a time like this !😨
Being a powerful influencer as a psycologist….Even I felt that I was being ME ….when I talked with her and not this psycology me , that I know how to explain ppl how to get through these stuff .
It’s just a simple theory about me , that even though I’m so strong and I feel stronger….there is this sometimes …that the emotional ME comeS outside of me and start caring ABOUT the person I love, to start to care most unknowingly, when I’m someone who doesn’t even want my parents to care about me so much …😟🤪
Wow …. doesn’t nature works so perfectly good and yah obviously FUCK LAWS AND RULES !!!😊❤️😨
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