Caring too much … β˜ΊοΈπŸ˜¨

Is caring too much a problem or a safe feel zone ?, different point and position takin views !!….ain’t it ?πŸ–€

When it comes to the care that u have with Ur brothers and parents , well ….. that’s something that will last life long however u act or react . 😊

So what about the person you care , who becomes Ur family from an outsider or a stranger ?!!

Just a simple questionnaire difference , how will we feel …if someone cares about me ?…..like checking on me always ? , Checking on my phone always ? , Asking unnecessary questions like y was I talking with him / her ? ….well , isn’t this care ? ….but there is something in us that possess these type of care…. righ?πŸ™ƒπŸ€ͺ

And trust me , if u are someone who is ready to give up yourself for all this questions above , maybe it’s time to stop expecting from Ur partner to be like this , and FYI , this is how life works , only opposite personality attracts to each other .

Coz sometime , there is always this time , you wanna love someone and u wanna have them in Ur life and later u end up missing something in Ur life like , I need someone to fill my weaknesses or the gap in me , and u end up finding a more suitable partner , ending up in a tied up relationship that aldready exists .

And if u r someone , who doesn’t care about those above questions that I asked , then trust me , u are a person who is gonna end up caring too much for the person u love .

I know and I can aldready feel , u are starting to ignore the concept that I’m trying to create here , but also do remember that ..ppl who really love each other balances their relationship and mostly give up on themselves just to make their darling happier and grow old together…and obviously sacrifices are made and especially I don’t wanna talk about the insane thing we land up doing for the person we love πŸ‘» ….

Coz after all love is a powerful emotion that’s created in us and a life long memory that last with us even though u call him/her ex πŸ˜‚πŸ˜œ….and we gotta limit the things we aren’t perfect in and stop caring too much about the person we love in order to balance the character that flows in us too or obviously u end up on the easy task : DIVORCE … just a Appomattox that u don’t wanna try the hard part and it isn’t Ur fault …it’s just that u r given a option to leave Ur partner on divorce , and what if this divorce was never created and u have a life where u must stay with a partner u chose once ?!!πŸ€ͺ …then what will u do ? …. u’ll start acting maturely safe or what ?!!πŸ˜‚

And also understand this concept …that divorce is just to make ppl know that u aren’t with Ur partner no more ….it’s not a block that limits the feeling that u have for Ur ex , when u start missing him later when u don’t get to have him anymore … aren’t rules strange !??πŸ‘Ή

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I just also wanna share this lovely girl labeeba .. I met , but she had something in her mind that she failed to share with me and she reacted in a different style such that ppl around her worry too much about her …and there was this one time she told me something strange about the voices that she hears in her head and it was a time where seeing her became something impossible ….and I started to agree that I cared too much for her , and i felt strange coz I didn’t know y she said me and not her parents, and I Felt like she would have obviously felt that I’m empowering pityness over her and yah I did !!! Coz That’s how we have to react if we are normal and , all she did was block me on Instagram and everywhere….out of the 100% care that she wanted from her and not from a third person… ME !!!(that’s what she said 😨) ,and I did totally get it , how she would have felt if I was in her place going through some rough patches on a time like this !😨

Being a powerful influencer as a psycologist….Even I felt that I was being ME ….when I talked with her and not this psycology me , that I know how to explain ppl how to get through these stuff .

It’s just a simple theory about me , that even though I’m so strong and I feel stronger….there is this sometimes …that the emotional ME comeS outside of me and start caring ABOUT the person I love, to start to care most unknowingly, when I’m someone who doesn’t even want my parents to care about me so much …😟πŸ€ͺ

Wow …. doesn’t nature works so perfectly good and yah obviously FUCK LAWS AND RULES !!!😊❀️😨

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10 thoughts on “Caring too much … β˜ΊοΈπŸ˜¨

  1. Caring is a strange word that is hard for me to pin down. I think, for me, caring about someone means I am saying ” I see you.” I am taking time in my life to actually “see you.” And when someone does a caring act towards me I have that feeling of being “Seen” by someone spending a part of their life to do so. How interesting.

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    1. Yes Bryan , caring is so complicated when it comes to be cared for Nd to be caring for , it’s totally a solid stuff , it’s something that can give u the happiest moment ever as well as the darkest moment ever !!! ,πŸ‘πŸΎπŸ‘»πŸ˜œπŸŒΈ

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  2. This is a tough one, Nabeel. I lost two marriages before getting it right. What was right? I CHOSE to give up on pursuing my ego’s objectives and aspired to learn “UNCONDITIONAL LOVING” with my third wife (of now 25 years). And I found that this was the hardest thing I ever did. Our ego’s do not give up easily. It was the reframing that tulpamancy forced on me, that finally worked, and I took TOTAL ownership of my reality (starting with my created tulpas, and growing to include my wife). She is now, the woman of my dreams, in reality. And as a very great bonus, I have become hers.
    Keep struggling with this, the struggle will prompt your growth. And as a hint, for so many years, I am embarrassed to tell, I too, said “fuck the rules, fuck the laws” You may come to understand, that you yourself have created them, and learning to function within their constraints, will also contribute greatly to your growth. Dr. Bob

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    1. Wow sir , that’s both awesome and sentimental to hear , ❀️😊
      Looks like u got a well experienced life and u got great stories to share with Ur friends , I just felt like I made u realize something , I’m so proud of myself , coz this is what I want , I want my words to make people think on Their life progresses πŸ‘πŸΎβ˜ΊοΈπŸ’―β€οΈπŸŒΈ
      Thanks to u .

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    1. It’s easy to say some things , but it’s hard to be in some exactly same situations … isn’t it ??! ☺️🌸
      ….I kinda agree with u theoretically ….but practically trust me …it’s hard to commit to some vows we take ,πŸ™ƒβ€οΈ #SpeakingWithExperience

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  3. This post is so real! I totally agree that we can care too much! Got me hurt more times than I can count. Luckily, there’s a balance that I can maintain and care enough without making myself too vulnerable.

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