I often notice me and the people who live with me and my surroundings , coming across a common problem in Their lives in decision makings .
And I literally never knew , y god always gives us two paths to choose on.. when we only pray to him to give us success .🤦😜🤪
And yah … everyone faces this similarity and the struggle to choose between so many options that can change the view of Ur life that u present it up as Ur future .
Here , obviously we’re so afraid that what would happen if I chose something else that’s wrong for me , and I missed and messed up with the right path that was just ahead of me !!! …and mostly we get self possessed with us if things goes really… really ….wrong .
And u come to land up on a state called self depressed upon the decisions u make .
For such good people who thinks like really in a technical way and in a society threat and in a safety concerned multiple confusing way!!! I really appreciate them and I would simply suggest to pick up the first thought that comes in ur mind and do it with full satisfaction , that ur mind choses for u unknowingly , but the first answer that suddenly rises in Ur head as soon u think about the problem …” that thought ” .😲🤗
This decision advice was actually from a psychotherapist to me years ago , and I find it pretty good and easy for me in taking my decisions and living with it , and also I can guarantee u as it never goes wrong with me nor do u fail , coz it’s a simple secret satisfaction u put on the thought that u are gonna choose the first thought that comes out of those two options that u have in mind .😌
I know , I can see Ur eyes seeming a bit confused over here , ok …lemme put it simple words :
In a randomly decision decision taking , between an yes and a no option choice that u fix in Ur head , apply the first thought that comes to Ur mind , if u get an yes … apply the yes qualities and let’s goo in lyf , if u get a no firstly thought in Ur mind , it’s ok 🙌, look out or verify your other options and opportunities that makes u to take a firm decision much stronger .❤️
After all , it’s u who is gonna live with the decisions u make , and it’s more simple to come out of self pityness that comes in the orderly thinking if u fail , rather than failing bcuz of someone else , as he made Ur decisions , since u asked him to take Ur decisions
And my simple theory is , You only realize the real threat and the value of Ur life , only when a gun point is holder ahead of ur head and the situation must seem like , you are in the edge tip of Ur beautiful life , coz it’s u over there holding the last breath of Ur life and there is no theory yet assuming what will happen after u die , and trust me , no one has ever taken initiative to find it too , coz they know it’s pointless .
It’s exactly the same scenario , it’s Ur decision that u must take in Ur own coz it’s ur life and only u can understand the value of Ur lyf with the heart that is beating in u unknowingly , so y not take the decisions by urself !!!
And this is where I help u with what I know : take up the first thought and the first answer that clicks in Ur mind suddenly out of nowhere as u ask the question to urself and maximum apply it into actions without any more further thoughts and thinking on an on about is , which u deeply know that’s waste .🤷🌸
It’s so fuckin simple , it’s we who complicate it ; 🤯
U have a problem in Ur mind , suddenly u get a thought like an answer arising unknowingly in our mind .
Now don’t waste anytime , I understand we are prone to confusions .🤦😲…that’s today’s world !!!
Apply the first thought that came to Ur mind like an answer to Ur question , and start working on it ASAP .
U succeed or not , who cares , fuck what will people or Ur parents think about u , be strong and have faith in what u do , and I’m damn sure u will chose the right path out of all the confusions .
If u again say NO .. I’ll fail !!! 😦, fuck it ..hey!!!☺️ Notice, unknowingly u got satisfaction here , coz u made Ur decisions 🤩👏🤙
And not by some lame guys who only want u if u have money and use in u !!!
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